You can PM me too if you like, if moon tear isn't there
To patch your Sakray and your anthempatch go to your computer, program files, gravity, RO then search for sakray.exe or alternativesakray.exe (either should work, if one doesn't, try the other), and your anthempatch.exe
if you're using vista you might need to right click + "Run as administrator"
that's all I can think of, you really shouldn't have to wait that long @_@ it's about a two/three second loading screen, shouldn't be longer than that.