rofl make sure on what are you saying..almost all the players including my friends also tells about why it lags ...and besides i dont use to lag about 2days ago..we have good i net connection too since i am in jap..
I'm sorry, I don't live next door to the server either (I'm from Germany). But I never lagged, only when someone using the same network was down- or uploading something. My connection is a simple 1000kbit/s line, and I can play fairly well, even on my older computer.
There are different kinds of
lag, so you might want to describe it to us, like, is your character frozen, and suddenly everything around you happens extremely fast, and you "flew" to the tile you clicked on (-> client lag), or is everyone frozen, then moving? (-> most likely server lag, but usually people yell a "OMG LAG" after this, lol)
Just saying "all the players are lagging, my friends are lagging like hell, and so on" doesn't really help if you want help. <.<
Anthem is naturally a bit laggy, unfortunately.
Indeed, it is, compared to some other servers. But you usually get used to it, and kinda ignore it after some time. But I don't think this is the lag the OP is talking about.