eerrrmmm im actually just a base lvl 19 and a job lvl 10 so like i dont even know where to go and what to fight im lost and everyone ignores me 
Well that's just ridiculous! What I would recommend is going to Payon Dungeon and focus on killing Poporings. Once you hit base level 30, go Alberta, and head north, once you reach the top wall, talk to the class changer lady [wow I can't remember her name]. Talk to her and be like "I wanna be a swordie!" and then you'll be a swordie ;3
Then, go to Orc Dungeon, and kill orcs there until level 50, at which point:
Hi, Welcome to Server, Since u already got a Swordman i think u already got enough level like 50+, so u stat ur's status point to it Str, Vit and Dex. And go to TF1 make some kill to level 65+ then go to TF2 u can start to level and farm cakes and cookies.
You do that. You can get to all of these places by talking to the warp girl located somewhere in every town.
