Actually, when you ad fraud, no the server does NOT get the money. In fact, ad frauding is the leading cause in why we lose sponsors. Here's how it works!
1. You fill out sponsor survey for the first time.
2. It verifies, goes from our system, to theirs, and their sends back a green light -> OK!
3. You get the ad credit.
However, people forget what happens when someone ad frauds, lets take that scenario I just did, and say, it's not his first time but his 4th time.
4. A few days later, the sponsor checks IP's and cross references everything that's been inputted.
5. Sponsor realizes that it was fraudulent survey input.
6. You have already used your ad credits to purchase an item.
7. Ad sponsor comes back to AnimaRO and demands back the money they had given Anima.
8. A bad mark goes on Anima's record with the sponsor.
9. X amount of frauders and Anima loses sponsor.
10. Anima loses sponsor, thus server loses out on funds.
This is why Anima banned people for ad frauding. The sponsors would repeatedly come back and say this IP and that IP are frauding and still are, please do something about this else we will have to get rid of you. So Anima did what they could have. In the end, you did fraud, and you did get banned for it. If you purchase an item from a store, and eat a piece of gum from the store without paying for it, you are still, stealing. Even though you paid for your items from the store and they were more than the piece of gum, in the end you still stole.
You also didn't mention, how you tried to deceive us into thinking your account was banned due to a scammer. Though you came clean later on, it wasn't until later on that you did that, much like what had happened in this case. Had you come clean to the GMs at the time, perhaps you could have gotten grace from them for doing so.
Reference:
http://www.anthemro.com/forums/index.php/topic,5752.msg127972.html#msg127972Talis has said you will not get unbanned, so I'm sorry, but you will not get unbanned.