I'm sorry if that sounds blunt, but why would a charge back - accidental or not - be a mistake on our side? FYI: Charge back = You donate money to the server, receive the ad credits, but then, for some reason, PayPal doesn't transfer the money to Anthem's PayPal account, so yeah. You received ad credits, but there was no money transaction to AnthemRO, or it's on hold until you resolve the issues with your account. You don't want to know how many players scammed or tried to scam us by donating, then cancelling the transaction, so a ban for the duration of the charge back is justified, and it's definitely not our fault if there are any issues with your PayPal account.
@Duplighost: I'm sorry for the delay on your or your cousin's ticket, but maybe the charge back has not been resolved yet completely. All I can offer you is talking to a staff member with access to the PayPal account to check up on the donation.
And yes, we definitely are human, and we do make mistakes as well. But putting the blame on us everytime you "think" we're in the wrong doesn't work; it's just not fair.