i've tried 1 hyper high rate and was really boring with like 50 people on and events going everyday but still not fun cause they were having guilds of 1 vs 1
while anthem has many players that can help you out if you're not too beggar and really look for help without getting free stuff but just getting advices and improving yourself on the server.
you can get good friends here if you work out
for the lag im sorry but if you lag a lot must be your internet provider so theres nothing to do with the server =/ if you like other servers go for it if you like them, anthem is probably the best Aegis server out there, Aethna arent that cool with all their broken custom stuff, you'll feel anthem broken at the begining but join a nice friendly guild and you'll be fine.
pm me if you need any help ingame, ill be glad to help
PS you should start with a swordie, either sader or knight are fun and easy to start
lol... thanks for your kindness, i appreciate it. But you guys got me all wrong. I'm not new to RO.. just new to this server. I took a break for like 3-4 years. As for help... i actually hate getting help like having a high level character babysitting you. I absolutely hate that. I much prefer finding similarly levelled characters that need to pool together to be able to level efficiently because the dungeon or whatever is just too hard to play alone. I guess you don't really see too much of that in old servers though.

My biggest pet peeve right now is the Skill and Stat reset npc for the reasons i listed in my last post. Honestly, it just makes this game too easy. For me at least, the lower the rates and harder and closer to the original RO then the better. It's just way more satisfying, y'know?
"Yeah, I made a GC sader. Yep. It wasss hella hard during my swordy days to get to job 50 with just INT but i finally made it."
lol but instead.. now you can just make a regular STR/VIT/DEX swordy then just reset the stats to INT later. Oh well, i doubt i'd find a server without this horrid reset npc now and most people probably are addicted to it. Sure makes levelling easy.

Edit:
I for one have just reached level 36 after just 1 night as a novice with that uber novice gear and my stats reset to just AGI and DEX.. I think i might actually level a bit slower for some parts once i job change! >_.