Spring rabbit clipsx2, eddga shoes, some kind of status armor, some Dopple,dopple, bapho weapon, usually a mace. Forgot to mention a shield of some sort with a High orc card in it to keep your mobs aggro'd.
Pussy cat bell is a lower head gear that gives +5 to all stats
Assassin bell?

Beats me. Probably download MirAI and let your homunc level ina dungeon as you afk or watch.
Closest thing to IC with a wiz is something like 130(?) in priests with bless its 140ish. I'll find a post discussing kaho-less IC alternatives in a second. way too lazy to find the discussion thread, Eimi summed it up right here though
without kahos ...posible :/
sting gloves 10
gargoyle 5
stem worm 5
bless 10
rod + job bonus 10
rocker 1
and the last 10 u need can be obtained by one of those +10 dex stat foods
wich arrent rly that hard to get if u have a blazer~nyo^^