2 get intamacy points i need to feed it at 14 right? ive been doing that but its still shy 
and wut are the stages the pet can be in. like awkward,shy.....loyal
Not sure about the exact numbers but oh well...
Point system: Levels 1-15(need a check on this) pets earn 15 points per feed when in neutral status. Doubles when in hunger status.
Levels 15+(need a check on this) pets earn 5 points per feed when in neutral status and doubles when in hunger status.
Giving your pet an accessory: Adds 100 points
Removing the accessory: Lose 150(clarification needed) points
Returning to egg form loses: 5-10 points
Switching masters: Goes back to default (Intimacy at 250)
(Note: If you die, your pet loses 15 intimacy points)
Intimacy: (Highest to lowest)Loyal: (750-1000) Good job your pet loves you and it can talk. Now if it can only do skills...
Cordial: (500-750) Your pet should get a 3rd performance. Just a few more till loyal, hang in there...
Neutral: (300-500) Love/hate relationship.
Shy: (250-300) Your pet doesn't feel comfortable around you...
Awkward: (less than 250) Just as the name implies, your relationship is Awwwkkwarrd. Pet may run away soon
Hunger levels(Highest to lowest):Stuffed: Your pet is full. That's a good thing. (Don't feed it)
Satisfied: It's like when you eat a Mcdonalds cheeseburger without the fries. (Don't feed it)
Neutral: What you feel after eating one slice of that delicious pizza...YOU JUST WANT MORE!! (Feed if you want, but wait for hungry for double points)
Hungry: Sohee: "Master I'm hungry. Can we get sushi in Amatsu?"
Master: "NO! EAT YOUR CHICKEN!!" (Feed your pet now)
Very Hungry: Think of it this way: "You're a tiger in a fast food restaurant filled with human customers..." (FEED YOUR PET NOW!!) *Note: 100 points lost(need clarification) when in very hungry status. No points gained either when fed in this state.
**Note: pets get hungrier when not moving.
Again: I'm not sure about the exact numbers but this should give you a faint idea...