for Pvm so i should need flee gear im guessing
What kind of PvM? All purpose or for a specific area?
If its one on one stuff, get like . . condor armour or something, or those armours that give you a touch of elemental resistance and some flee. Flee =/= mobs though, so I'd probably get something else.
Status armour is always good as well, I carry around like a pest mink and disguise padded. Pest is always handy, but its pretty useless mob wise, disguise is just convinient cause with high flee, the only thing hitting you would be skills, might as well stop them in their tracks.
Elemental armour is good for specific areas, bathory/ED is quite good if you intend on killing undead.